10 Funny and Stupid Things People Do to Find True Peace

      In a world constantly buzzing with stress, noise, and never-ending to-do lists, the quest for true peace often takes center stage in our lives. But let’s be honest—sometimes, in the pursuit of tranquility, we end up doing the most ridiculous things. You know what they say: “Desperate times call for desperate measures.” With that in mind, here are 10 funny and downright silly things people have done in their quest for peace of mind.

1. Throwing a ‘Happiness Rock’ Party

      Picture this: a group of friends sitting in a circle, passionately discussing which rocks bring them joy while insisting that “Happiness Rocks” should be a thing. Spoiler alert: it’s just a bunch of people throwing stones at their problems—literally.

2. Meditating in a Retail Store

      Nothing says “inner calm” like trying to find your zen state while surrounded by shoppers arguing over the last pair of shoes. The tranquility candles might help, but the
occasional cart collision can really impact one’s inner peace.

3. Talking to Houseplants Like They’re Friends

      Many people swear by talking to their houseplants, thinking it brings them peace. But can you imagine the conversation? “Hey Fern, can you keep my secrets? I need to feel heard.” At this point, the only thing thriving is the plant’s ego!

4. Yoga Amidst Distracting Noises

      Some folks decide to have a peaceful yoga session, only to realize they’ve chosen a spot right beneath a flight path. Nothing disrupts your warrior pose like a 747 flying overhead. Remember, grounding yourself is important, but not when you’re grounded by jet fuel!

5. Creating a “Positive Vibes Only” Sign in Their Bathroom

      Hanging a sign that reads “Good Vibes Only” above the toilet might seem like a simple way to bring positivity into the home. But let’s face it, every time nature calls, you might find yourself questioning your life choices. Who needs a peaceful bathroom experience when you’re busy vibing?

6. Taking a Sound Bath with Inappropriate Soundtrack

      Sound baths are all the rage, but some people misinterpret the concept. Picture someone trying to relax to the sound of bagpipes or a cat meowing. Instead of inner peace, you’re left wondering if you entered a bizarre music festival instead.

7. Building a Tiny Zen Garden with Actual Tiny Objects

      Some people construct miniature zen gardens out of the most absurd items—think Lego pieces as rocks or thumbtacks as shrubs. It might not bring the peace they desire, but it sure brings a laugh as they find their “inner child” in a mound of plastic bricks.

8. Holding Formal Peace Meetings with Kids’ Toys

      Gathering stuffed animals and dolls for a serious discussion about global peace may sound noble, but the outcome usually involves debates over who gets the last cookie or a heated exchange about who is the real “boss” in the toy world.

9. Engaging in ‘Peaceful’ Art Therapy—Using Only Condiments

 
    Some people find peace through art. However, this peace may quickly turn into chaos when they decide to express their feelings using ketchup and mustard. Who knew that painting on canvas could get so messy—and tasty?

10. Dancing in Public Without a Care in the World

      Finally, there are those who hit the streets to dance out their stress. While this can be liberating, it’s even funnier when bystanders look on with mouths agape. Some may find it endearing; others just want to know if they accidentally walked into an audition for a reality show.

Conclusion

      In the search for inner peace, it’s clear that people will try anything—even if it’s absurd. Whether it’s negotiating with houseplants or unintentionally becoming the star of an unintended performance art piece in public, it’s vital to take a moment to laugh at ourselves. After all, if you can’t find peace, at least you can find humor! So the next time you’re tangled in the chaotic web of life, remember, maybe your path to tranquility just requires a good dose of silliness. 🧘‍♀️✨

England Goodbye, Then and Now

 

 A Timely Reminder to Look to Christ

      Back in the 70s, a song titled "England Goodbye" captured the turmoil of the nation through the lyrics of Malcolm Wild and Alywn Wall. The song wasn't just about political and social upheaval; it was a poignant commentary on a society turning away from God and the consequences that followed.

      While the song's focus was on England's struggles, its message resonates powerfully with the world we inhabit today. If we look around, it's impossible to ignore the widespread troubles plaguing our planet – conflict, division, moral decay, and a pervasive sense of unease. And while the global stage provides a stark backdrop, we don't need to look far to see the signs of a world losing focus on God. Our neighborhoods, our schools, and sadly, even some corners of the church, bear witness to this drift.

The Consequences of a Godless World

      The message of "England Goodbye" serves as a timely reminder that neglecting our spiritual foundation has consequences. It's a truth echoed throughout history and in the scriptures. When we turn our backs on God, we inevitably lose our way.

      Think of the biblical story of Peter walking on water towards Jesus. Filled with faith, he took the initial step. But the moment he diverted his gaze from Christ, doubt crept in, and he began to sink. This powerful image mirrors the predicament of our world today. We are like Peter, called to walk with Christ, but too often, we allow distractions and worldly concerns to steal our focus.

Returning to a Christ-Centered Life

      The solution, then, is clear: we must return to a Christ-centered life. We must prioritize our relationship with God, placing Him at the very core of our existence. This isn't about a fleeting moment of devotion; it requires a conscious, ongoing effort to keep our eyes fixed on Jesus, to seek His guidance in every aspect of our lives.

      This journey won't be without its stumbles. We are human, after all, and we will falter. But just as Jesus reached out to Peter when he was sinking, God is ever-ready to extend His hand to us in our moments of weakness. He is our constant source of strength, our refuge in times of trouble, and our ultimate hope for a brighter future.

A Call to Action

      The world, much like England in the 70s, is in dire need of a spiritual awakening. "England Goodbye" may have been written decades ago, but its message continues to hold relevance. Let us embrace this timely reminder and recommit ourselves to seeking God's guidance and living a life centered on His love. By keeping our eyes fixed on Christ, we can navigate the troubled waters of this world and find the path to true peace and lasting purpose.

Why Can't We Stop Comparing Ourselves?

We're all guilty of doing it. We see someone else's fancy new car, their perfect family, or their successful career, and we can't help but feel a twinge of envy. We start to compare our own lives to theirs, and we come up short.

Why can't we just be happy with what we have? Why do we always have to compare ourselves to others?

There are a few reasons why we do this. First, we are social creatures. We are constantly interacting with other people, and we naturally compare ourselves to them. We want to know how we measure up.

Second, we are wired to seek out rewards. When we see someone else who has something we want, we are motivated to work harder to get it. This is a good thing, because it drives us to achieve our goals.

However, when we compare ourselves to others too often, it can lead to negative consequences. We can start to feel inadequate, resentful, and even depressed. We can also become paralyzed by fear of failure.

What Does God Say About Comparison?

God has a lot to say about comparison. In the Bible, He tells us that we should not compare ourselves to others (2 Corinthians 10:12). He also tells us that we are all unique and special, and that He loves us just the way we are (Psalm 139:14).

God wants us to focus on our own relationship with Him, and not on how we compare to others. He wants us to be content with what we have, and to trust in His plan for our lives (Philippians 4:11-13).

How to Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

If you find yourself constantly comparing yourself to others, there are a few things you can do to stop: Focus on your own strengths. Everyone has something unique to offer. Instead of focusing on what you don't have, focus on the things that you are good at.
Be grateful for what you have. Take some time each day to think about all of the things that you are grateful for. This will help you to appreciate what you have, and to be less envious
of others.

Set realistic goals. When you set goals for yourself, make sure that they are realistic and achievable. If you set your sights too high, you are setting yourself up for disappointment.

Spend time with positive people. The people you surround yourself with have a big impact on your thoughts and feelings. Spend time with people who make you feel good about yourself, and who support your goals.

Pray to God. God can help you to overcome the temptation to compare yourself to others. Pray to Him for strength, guidance, and contentment.

Comparing yourself to others is a waste of time and energy. It will only lead to disappointment and discouragement. Instead, focus on your own relationship with God, and be grateful for the blessings in your life.

Skeletons in the closet

 But can they dance?

      I made this video many years ago with an FX program I was trying for my son William. I told him if he didn't clean his room that the skeletons would come out of his closet in the middle of the night and scare him into cleaning his room.........It didn't work. We all have skeletons in our closet, But the real question is "Can they dance?"

Trick or Treat

The Sweetest and Most Sour of Halloween Candies

      As the spooky season approaches, it's time to dive into the sugary delights that make Halloween a memory to savor. From the nostalgic treats of our childhood to the latest sweet temptations, here's a comprehensive look at the best and worst of Halloween candies:

Favorite Candies

Every Halloween, we had that one candy that made our night. For many, it was the classic Smarties: a colorful array of sweet discs that melted in the mouth. Other beloved favorites include:

Reese's Peanut Butter Cups

Milky Way

Kit Kats

Snickers

Hershey's Chocolate Bars

Most Popular Candies

According to surveys, the top Halloween candies year after year include:

Reese's Peanut Butter Cups


Skittles

M&M's

Starburst

Twix

These candies have become synonymous with Halloween, and their popularity stems from their irresistible flavors, variety, and universal appeal.

Worst Candies

While there are some candies we love, there are others that make us cringe. Here are the candies that consistently rank as the least desirable treats:

Candy Corn: Its sweet and waxy texture is off-putting to many, making it a Halloween staple we'd rather avoid.

Black Licorice: Its strong, anise-like flavor is an acquired taste that not everyone enjoys.

Circus Peanuts: These neon marshmallows are too sweet and artificial for most palates.

Wax Lips: More of a novelty than a candy, these wax lips were never really meant to be eaten.

Dots: These gummy candies have a strange texture and an overpowering sweetness.

Balancing the Treats

      To avoid a sugar overload while still enjoying the Halloween festivities, it's a good idea to have a balance of healthier options on hand. Consider offering fruit cups, popcorn balls, or trail mix alongside the candy bowls. This way, kids (and adults!) can indulge without feeling too guilty. OK, like the kids are really going for that, Nope I wouldn't, and I don't think most kids would either.

      Halloween is all about treats and terror. So, grab your favorite candies, dress up in your scariest costume, and enjoy this spooky season filled with sugary delights and haunting memories!

The Struggle of Patience

 

 A Personal Journey

      Let’s be honest: being patient can be one of the most challenging tasks we face in our daily lives. I will be the first to admit that patience is a continual struggle for me. Whether it's waiting for a friend to show up, hoping for a promotion at work, or simply trying to maintain my composure during long lines at the grocery store, I often find myself battling impatience. I have observed that many guys seem to wrestle with this more than women do, and I can’t help but wonder why that is.

Why Is Patience So Hard?

      The truth is, we live in an age of instant gratification. Technology gives us a world of information at
our fingertips: we can order food, shop, and communicate in the blink of an eye. With all of this immediacy, it’s easy to forget that some things need time. The pressure to keep up with a fast-paced society can make the act of being patient feel like an uphill battle.

      One significant reason for this struggle among men could be societal expectations. We’re often conditioned to be problem solvers, decision-makers, and action-takers. Society doesn’t encourage long-suffering or waiting quietly. Instead, there’s an implicit expectation to be proactive, to exert control, and to seek immediate results. The result? An internal struggle every time we are faced with the need to be patient.

Finding Patience: Personal Strategies

      So, how do I cope with the frustration of impatience? Here are a few strategies that have helped me, and might help you as well:

Mindfulness and Self-Reflection: 

      Taking a step back to acknowledge my feelings of impatience can often defuse the situation. Practicing mindfulness, whether through meditation or deep breathing exercises, helps me to center my

thoughts and calm the urge to rush.


Setting Realistic Expectations: 

      Understanding that not everything can or should happen instantly helps. In my career, I’ve learned that growth and success take time, and adjusting my mindset to accept that can make all the difference.


Focus on the Bigger Picture: 

      I often remind myself of the bigger picture, the long-term benefits of waiting, whether it’s in my personal relationships or professional endeavors. This helps me assign value to patience.


Engaging in Positive Distraction: 

      Sometimes, the best way to handle impatience is to shift focus. Finding hobbies, indulging in interests, or even picking up a good book can shift my energy away from what I’m waiting for.

What God Says About Patience

While exploring the topic of patience, I delved into what God teaches us about this valuable virtue. The Bible addresses patience numerous times, acknowledging its importance and offering wisdom on how to cultivate it.

One of my favorite verses comes from James 1:2-4 (NIV), which says, “Consider it pure joy, my
brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”

This passage highlights that patience is not merely a passive waiting but an active process leading to growth. Tribulations and waiting periods can be seen as opportunities for maturation—a chance to build resilience and strength.

Handling Impatience Through Faith

Incorporating my faith into the pursuit of patience provides me with additional strategies. Here’s how:

Prayer and Reflection: 

      Turning to prayer helps me clarify my feelings and seek guidance. It acts as a reminder that I am not alone in my struggles for patience.

Community Support: 

      Sharing my feelings with friends, family, or a faith community provides me with a network of support. They often have insights and experiences that can encourage and inspire patience in the waiting.

Trusting God’s Timing: 

      Ultimately, I remind myself that God has a perfect plan and timing for my life. This recognition frees me to release my immediate desires and embrace the waiting process.

Conclusion

      In conclusion, patience is an ongoing challenge for many of us, especially in our fast-paced world.
Acknowledging that it’s common to struggle with patience is the first step. By adopting personal strategies and turning to spiritual teachings, we can learn to navigate our impatience more effectively.

      So, how about you? What do you do to practice patience, and what strategies have you found helpful? I’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences in the comments! Let's encourage one another on this journey toward patience.

Navigating the Unknown

 

 Faith, Worry, and Trusting God's Plan

Life is full of surprises, some wonderful, some challenging. But one of the biggest constants, if we're honest with ourselves, is the unsettling feeling of facing the unknown. We naturally worry about what's next, especially when it feels like things are outside of our control. My wife and I are currently navigating a period like this, a time where uncertainty reigns and the future feels a bit hazy.

I know my wife is handling this better than I am. I have a tendency to fret, to try and anticipate every possible outcome and figure out how to "fix" it. It's a natural human response, but it's not always the most helpful one. As a Christian, I'm reminded that my role isn't to control every aspect of life, but to bring it all to God and trust that He will work it out.

Bryan Duncan's words resonate deeply: "When you think you now better what needs done and how to fix it, That's you trying to be God and you're not him." It's a powerful reminder that my limited understanding is no match for God's infinite wisdom and power.

My faith, thankfully, is growing stronger through this experience. I believe God is with us, that He has a plan, and that He's already working things out for our good. My part is to continue praying and trust in His perfect timing.

However, I'll be the first to admit that trusting is hard sometimes. It's not my natural inclination to relinquish control. But I'm learning and striving to do just that. I'll keep praying and surrendering my anxieties to God.

Sharing the Struggle

I wanted to share this because I know many of you have faced, or are currently facing, similar situations. Whether it's a health concern, a job loss, a relationship challenge, or simply the anxiety of an uncertain future, the feeling of being overwhelmed by the unknown is a universal experience.

How Do You Deal With the Unknown?

So, I invite you to share your experiences and coping mechanisms in the comments below. How do you navigate those moments when worry creeps in and you feel helpless? What helps you to find peace and trust in the midst of uncertainty?

Let's encourage and support one another as we learn to navigate this journey called life, trusting in the One who holds the future in His hands.

The Thin Line Between Reality and Reel Life

 

 When Fiction Mirrors Our World

      We all do it. We sit on the edge of our seats, engrossed in a movie or TV show, and utter the inevitable, "That would never happen in real life!" Or perhaps we're struck by the uncanny realism, whispering, "That was so close to real life!" But what exactly is the difference between the two? And how does the arrival of AI change the equation?

The Fabric of Fiction:

      The difference between real life and a movie lies in the very nature of their creation.
Real life is messy, unpredictable, and often unremarkable. Movies, on the other hand, are carefully crafted narratives, designed to entertain and engage. They offer heightened drama, idealized characters, and a structured plot that rarely reflects the complexities of everyday life.

The Power of True Stories:

      When a movie is based on a true story, the line blurs significantly. We are presented with real events, real people, and real emotions. Yet, even here, the process of adaptation introduces elements of fiction. Dialogue is often reconstructed, events are condensed or expanded for narrative flow, and characters are sometimes embellished to enhance the story's impact.

The Rise of AI and Its Impact:

      The arrival of AI has introduced a new dimension to this debate. We are now living in a
world where AI algorithms can generate realistic images, videos, and even text. These technologies allow filmmakers to create worlds that are increasingly indistinguishable from reality. In fact, some argue that AI-generated content may eventually blur the line between fiction and reality entirely.

When Fiction Mirrors Reality:

      Despite the inherent differences, there are moments when movies and real life seem to collide. We see this in films that tackle contemporary issues with unflinching honesty, mirroring social and political anxieties. We also see it in documentaries that capture the raw, unfiltered reality of human experience.

The Value of Both:

      Ultimately, the difference between real life and a movie isn't a matter of right or wrong. Both have their own unique value and purpose. Real life provides us with the raw material for understanding ourselves and the world around us. Movies offer a platform for exploring different perspectives, escaping into fantastical worlds, and connecting with stories that resonate on a deeply human level.

      So, the next time you find yourself questioning the plausibility of a scene in a movie, remember that both real life and fiction have their own distinct strengths. While AI may be blurring the lines between the two, the power of human storytelling and the fascination with the unexpected will continue to captivate us for generations to come.

Warren Miller a skiing legend

 The Legend Who Brought Skiing to Life on Film

Warren Miller wasn't just a skier; he was a storyteller, a visionary, and a pioneer who brought the exhilarating world of skiing to millions across the globe. His legacy lives on through a body of work that stands as a testament to the power of film to capture adventure,
beauty, and the pure joy of gliding down a mountainside.

For decades, Warren Miller Entertainment has been synonymous with stunning ski films, transporting audiences to breathtaking landscapes and introducing them to the thrill of pushing boundaries on skis. From the towering peaks of the Alps to the remote corners of the Himalayas, Miller's films captured the essence of skiing: the camaraderie, the challenge, and the unbridled freedom it offers.

More Than Just Skiing: A Legacy of Inspiration

Miller's films were more than just a showcase of athletic prowess. They were a celebration of the human spirit, a reminder that we are capable of achieving incredible things when we chase our dreams and embrace the unknown. His narratives, often interspersed with quirky humor and insightful reflections, connected with audiences on a deeper level.

His movies weren't just about skiing; they were about exploring the world, pushing limits, and finding adventure in unexpected places. He ignited a passion for skiing in countless individuals, inspiring them to explore the mountains and experience the transformative power of nature.

The Enduring Appeal of Warren Miller Films

What is it about Warren Miller films that continues to resonate with people even today? Perhaps it's the sense of wonder and escapism they offer, the chance to vicariously

experience the thrill of skiing in some of the most remarkable locations on Earth.

The films are also a powerful reminder of the importance of community and shared experiences. We see skiers from all walks of life come together, united by their love for the sport and their desire to push their limits.

A Legacy That Continues to Inspire

Although Warren Miller passed away in 2018, his legacy lives on through the company he founded and the countless people he inspired. The films continue to be produced, capturing

the spirit of adventure and the beauty of skiing in a way that remains true to Miller's original vision.

So, whether you're a seasoned skier or someone simply looking for a captivating adventure, take a moment to experience the magic of a Warren Miller film. You might just find yourself inspired to explore the mountains, chase your dreams, and discover the joy of skiing in a whole new light.

Have you seen a Warren Miller film? What was your favorite part? Share your thoughts in the comments below!

Texas Fall

 It's Not Colorado, But It's Still Got That Magic

          As the sweltering days of summer fade away (Unless you live in Texas) and a crispness fills the air, we are ushered into the enchanting season of fall. With each passing day, nature transforms itself into a breathtaking tapestry of vibrant reds, oranges, and yellows, as leaves cascade from trees in a brilliant display of color. This stunning metamorphosis is just one of the many reasons why fall holds a special place in our hearts. It’s not just about the scenic beauty; it’s also a time for reconnecting with comforting traditions, indulging in seasonal flavors, and savoring delightful treats like warm apple cider and pumpkin-flavored goodies. From cozy sweaters to crisp evenings by the fire, fall embodies a sense of warmth and nostalgia, making it truly the best time of the year. Join me as we embrace the joys of this magical season and explore all the reasons that make fall a time worth celebrating.

 

   Now, I'm not going to lie, there's something about the crisp Colorado air, the brilliant reds and golds painting the mountainsides, that just screams "fall." But here in Texas, fall is a little different. We might not have the dramatic foliage displays or the snow-capped peaks, but trust me, we've got our own unique charm.

     For starters, the "cool" air we experience here is more like a welcome reprieve from the summer heat. Instead of bundling up in layers, we can finally enjoy the outdoors without sweating through our clothes. And let's be honest, there's something special about the feeling of a crisp autumn breeze on your skin after months of relentless sunshine.

     Fall in Texas is also all about cozy nights by the fire. Whether it's a crackling bonfire with friends or a warm fireplace with loved ones, those evenings are all about connection, laughter, and good conversation. And what better way to enjoy those evenings than with the smell of grilling food and the sweet scent of apple cider filling the air?

     Speaking of food, fall in Texas is a culinary delight. From pumpkin spice lattes and apple cider donuts to hearty chili and steaming bowls of creamy butternut squash soup, there's something for everyone to enjoy. And don't forget the local farm-to-table bounty! Fall is the perfect time to indulge in fresh, seasonal produce like crisp apples, juicy pears, and plump pomegranates.

     Sure, we might not have the iconic fall colors of Colorado, but our Texas sunsets are pretty darn spectacular! The sky transforms into a canvas of fiery hues as the sun dips below the horizon, creating breathtaking views that are truly unforgettable.

     So, while Texas fall might not be a carbon copy of its Colorado counterpart, it's still a time to appreciate the simple joys of the season. The cool air, cozy nights, delicious food, and breathtaking sunsets all come together to create a unique and cherished experience. It's a reminder that no matter where you are, fall has its own magic and beauty, waiting to be discovered.